My husband and I have been married for fourteen years. We have three children. I am eight years younger than him. I am very beautiful. Childbearing couldn’t bring my beauty down. I have an incredibly sexy body. Fourteen years of staying married to him couldn’t change the light God placed on me. I have all it takes to draw the attention of men yet my husband prefers looking at the nude photos of other women. He saves them on his phone and peeks at them every now and then. When I complain, he tells me, “I saved that photo long ago. I don’t even remember the person in it.”

These are the transparent falsehoods he tells me when I catch him. occasionally I fete the girls. utmost of them are girls who canvassed with his company. Others are deals girls of shops we buy from. He saves their figures and follows their posts. When they post sultry prints of themselves he saves them. Because of this, I started taking sultry prints and transferring them to him. If that’s what my hubby wants also why not? latterly I set up out that he deletes the prints I shoot him. I asked him, “ Why do you cancel the prints I shoot you only to save those of other girls? Do you not find me seductive? ”

His response was, “ I ca n’t risk someone going through my phone and seeing prints of my woman
looking like that. ”

I strut around the house in my sexiest outfits. occasionally I indeed walk around in my birthday suit. I twerk for him and he looks down. When I complain he tells me he’s shy to look at me like that. This is a man who hits on girls far and wide he goes. He has the number of a cashier at a gas station we buy from. He has the number of a deals girl he buys chuck
from. He has the number of some of our former maids. He textbooks them. One time I indeed caught him red- handed doing it with one of our maids. His defence was, “ I did n’t enter. You caught us before I could go by. ”


How can such a person tell me he’s shy of looking at me twerking for him? He’s not shy standingcloth-less in front of the maid and those deals girls but he’s shy watching me do my thing.

I used to track his dispatches with the girls and defy him about it. Because of this, now he has perfected the art of hiding them. He’d a habit of opining on attractive prints of some of the girls on social media. He’d call them names like, “ Sweet angel. ” Whenever I saw similar commentary on my feed, I’ll reply to them so he ’ll know I ’ve seen the comment. With time, he stopped doing it.
I do n’t understand why he does these effects.

I’m a woman with a high drive for shuperu so it is n’t that I withhold myself fromhim.However, he’s the one who keeps himself down from me, If anything. When he has to do it, it’s so lousy I ’m left unsatisfied. For all the time we ’ve been married, we engage in closeness lower than four times a month. Why would he reject me and go philandering after other people’s bodies? What do these girls have that I do n’t have? When I try to talk to him, he makes me feel like I ’m making effects up.
He’d say effects like, “ What did I ever do to make you mistrust me? I love you. What do you want me to do to prove it? You know far and wide I go and everything I do. Is that not enough? ” occasionally I get confused and wonder if truly it’s all in my head. It’s not in my head. I ’m stable and I see what he does. I know he does that to mess up with my head.

One day he told me he was going to Tema with his friend. latterly, I got a announcement from the bank that he withdrew plutocrat at an ATM nearly in Accra. I called him, “ Why am I getting a announcement that you’re in Accra? You said you were going to Tema. ” He said, “ I decided to meet my counsel before heading to Tema. ” I was n’t induced so I called his counsel to confirm his story. incontinently the counsel answered the phone he said, “ Good thing you called. I ’ve been trying to get hold of your hubby. Is he with you? ”

That was my answer right there. I called his friend to ask about him and his friend told me he had n’t spoken to my hubby in two weeks. I called him incontinently. I wanted to throw his falsehoods right on his face. I called and called for several hours and he did n’t pick up. He came home late at night angry at me for calling his counsel and his friend. When I asked where he went he said, “ You’re doing it again. You’re trying so hard to charge me of commodity. Why ca n’t you stop doing these effects? ”

He made himself a victim while I look on like a fool. He acted as if I was some crazy insecure woman
who’s always looking to pick up a fight with him. He does that every time I ask questions about his relationship with someone of the contrary coitus. The verity is, I’m insecure so occasionally when he talks like that, I start to suppose that he’s right. I start to believe that I’m overreacting.

Ever since I got married to him, I do n’t entertain men. I do n’t indeed have manly musketeers. I believe wedded women should n’t have manly musketeers for the sake of peace in their homes. Now, I do n’t believe in that presently. My hubby does n’t mind amusing girls. I ’ve done all I could to shift his attention to me but the harder I try, the harder he pulls down from me.

One evening, I walked by on him finishing a phone call with a deals girl. The timekeeper read twenty- six twinkles. I asked him, “ What were you talking about with a shop attendant for that long? ” He said, “ I’m looking for a new clerk so I was asking her to help me find someone. ” I shook my head and asked him, “ Is that how people find registers these days? ” He got protective; “ You’re doing it again. You’re looking for reasons to charge me of commodity. ” And that’s how he got me to stop pushing further for an explanation.

I’m so tired of his station. I love him veritably much but he breaks my heart when he does these effects. I’ve come to accept that he’ll not change. So, I’ve decided to be the change I seek.


I want to open myself up to men. I’m not saying that I’m going to cheat on him. I just want to entertain them. I’ll admit phone calls from them in his presence. I’ll befriend some of these men and form platonic connections with them. I believe two can play this game. I wo n’t complain about him and the girls presently. I’ll just start living freely indeed if it means allowing men to flirt with me. Hopefully, when he notices the change in me, he’d know how it hurts to be on the other side.

What do you think?